The topic of dealing with violent men in our society is and will always be a challenge for all of us. It may sound ironic, perhaps triggering to state the root of their behaviours also comes from a place of feeling unsafe. It goes without saying that safety for the victims must be upheld immediately. Certain actions or legal measures need to be top priority to protect those entwined in these scena

We men make choices, good or bad, based on our primal instinct…to survive. And without the support of other men, those decisions can lead us down paths we didn’t want to travel. We behave in ways, aggressive or subservient, to avoid the pain of rejection…in order to survive. We wear masks of duty and obligation, seeking any scrap of approval…in order to survive. We lie to ourselves for